I am changing (from 韋比澤，New York)

Recently a good friend of mine turned 60.

I asked him what is changing.

He sent me the following lines.

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Days slip into weeks,

Weeks turn into months and

Months transform into years.

Calendars are changing and so am I.

Yes, I am changing.

*After loving my parents, my siblings, my spouse, my children, my friends, now I have started loving myself.*

Yes, I am changing.

*I just realised that I am not “Atlas” & the world does not rest on my shoulders.*

Yes, I am changing.

*I now stopped bargaining with poor vegetables & fruits vendors. After all, a few Ringgit more is not going to burn a hole in my pocket but it might help the poor fellow save for his daughter’s school fees.*

Yes, I am changing.

*I pay the trishawman / taxi driver & walk away without waiting for the change. The extra money might bring a smile on his face. After all he is toiling much harder for a living than me.*

Yes, I am changing.

*I stopped telling the elderly that they have already narrated that story many times. After all, the story makes them walk down the memory lane and relive the past.*

Yes, I am changing.

*I have learnt not to correct people even when I know they are wrong. After all, the bonus of making everyone perfect is not on me. Peace is more precious than perfection.*

Yes, I am changing.

*I give compliments freely & generously. After all its a mood enhancer not only for the recipient, but also for me*.

Yes, I am changing.

*I have learnt not to bother about a crease on my shirt or a spot on my skirt. After all, personality speaks louder than appearances*.

Yes, I am changing.

*I walk away from people who don't value me. After all, they might not know my worth, but I do*.

Yes, I am changing.

*I remain cool when someone plays dirty politics to outrun me in the rat race. After all, I am not a rat and neither am I in any race*.

Yes, I am changing.

*I am learning not to be embarrassed by my emotions. After all, it's my emotions that make me human.*

Yes, I am changing.

*I have learnt that its better to drop the ego than to break a relationship. After all, my ego will keep me aloof whereas with relationships I will never be alone*.

Yes, I am changing.

*I demand for whatever is due to me. After all, accepting injustice is almost as bad as doing injustice*.

Yes, I am changing.

*I've learnt to live each day as if it were the last. After all, it might be the last* .

Yes, I am changing.

*I am doing what makes me happy. After all, I am responsible for my happiness, and I owe it to me.*